Golden Rule for seeking Life Partner
Followings given points are basic rules to think if anybody is looking for life partner:
1. Why I am going for marriage:
Most of people don't find clear reason of marriage. This is a good question to ask from yourself before planning for marriage Make a list of reason on the paper, it will solve your most of tension & give you clear picture altogether about searching of life partner. You should always focus that you are looking for some one with whom you will spend whole life & construct a family.
2. What I am seeking in my life partner:
Again you should list down on the paper that what you want to be in life partner. Most of people do marriage as per money, status in society; beauty and religion, Fist you should look in to your cast & religion; your success rate will be more than if you go for in other cast or religion. It is applied for both man and woman.
3. Communicate with your keen or relatives or friends.
Marriage cannot be decided by one person or you cannot take decision by yourself. Taking help from someone, especially parents, relatives, respected and trustworthy members of the society is not bad instead it is infect mandatory to know about important information about your spouse.
4. when you are going to meet with prospective life partner, don't be alone
It is also important rule that don't meet with life partner alone before getting final in marriage process. Simply, you should avoid preventing any kind of mis-happening. Meeting with your prospective life partner is the process of marriage not final. So, don't let any body to take un due advantage of this process. So, take your friend/family member or keen along with you when you for meeting.
5. When you talk with your prospective spouse, talk like business man and talk to the point.
Some times it is motivated to start conversation on phone it doesn't mean you or your life partner should talk with each other like flirtatious speech of a sexual nature. Just for sake of talking with each other shouldn't talk. Talk objectively to understand each other & make compatible with your marriage. if you feel that your prospective partner is not matching your requirement, instantly you should close your talking & go ahead in journey of search.
6. Make a point when you should say okay for marriage:
You can not find 100% feature in your life partner what you want from prospective partner because ideal case is not possible at all until & unless you are highly lucky. In this case you should define mark when you would say that your prospective partner is okay can go for marriage. So, you have to compromise at some level. It is not harm because for successful marriage, you have to compromise at some level in across your life.
7. Avoid any rumour about your prospective partner:
Don't go by any negative rumour about your prospective partner or you should not stop your marriage process for sake of rumour. If this is case, you should be confirmed for that & talk with your partner about rumour is not harm & you can take help from your keen/ trusty man.
8. Last but not least, don't imitate of your friends or relatives:
Don't compare your requirement from your friend or relatives, your own requirement or thinking about prospective partner should decisive factor in marriage process & to take suggestion, it is not harm but it could be fruitful. But last decision must be unanimous of all your relatives, parents & trustworthy friends.
Hey guys, wish for your healthy & prosperous marriage!!!!!!!!
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